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The Rise in Love Podcast exists to change the narrative within 21st century dating & relationships to help high-achieving women increase their magnetism and manifest the relationship of their dreams. Through personal growth, spirituality, and honesty served straight-up, you’ll take responsibility for what you desire in your life, appreciate the natural difference between men & women, and take control over your thoughts and beliefs, to create what you most desire!
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Mar 14, 2019
Mar 14, 2019
28 min
You meet someone and he seems fantastic on the 1-3 dates. You think you’ve met your person because everything flows and it feels good!
Then all of a sudden everything changes.
What happened to that guy that was such a doll?
In today’s episode, I’m digging into 4 reasons why your relationship might start out really great, then seems to go to hell in a handbasket.
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Mar 7, 2019
Mar 7, 2019
11 min
Today’s episode is a little nugget of wisdom about first dates that was sparked from a conversation with one of my private 1:1 coaching clients.
Have you ever been on a first date and felt like he should be obligated to call you afterwards, even if he isn’t interested? Or you to him? Or felt like if he pays for dinner that you’re obligated to kiss him or sleep with him?
I believe we put way too much weight and obligation on first dates, and in this episode I’m breaking down why and what to do about it.
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Feb 28, 2019
Feb 28, 2019
20 min
Today, I’m diving into a topic that was sparked by a conversation with one of my clients.
What if you like someone you are dating, but you are hesitant to call it a relationship?
Does not calling a relationship a relationship make things easier or take the pressure off? I don’t feel this is often true, and in this episode I’ll tell you why.
I’m digging into what the difference is between when you’re “just dating” vs “in a relationship” as well as teaching you how to have conversations with your guy to make sure both of your expectations are clear.
I want you to remember that you can only attract what you’re an energetic match for. I’ll show you how you can look at the relationships you’ve been having and attracting, how are you showing up for yourself, and how are you creating those circumstances.
Are you creating a situationship or a relationship?
Let’s dig in!
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Feb 21, 2019
Feb 21, 2019
7 min
“Relationships take work.”
Have you heard this one before? Maybe you’ve even told yourself this as reassurance when you enter a relationship and it feels hard.
Ladies, early relationships should not be hard.
Remember, ease is not a bad thing, and you’re not more noble for having a hard relationship.
Today I’m bringing you a quick episode all about this relationship myth.
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Feb 14, 2019
Feb 14, 2019
12 min
Have you heard of love languages? It’s a pretty popular concept that originated with a book by Gary Chapman, and it describes five ways that people innately give and receive love.
Your love language says a lot about not only how you communicate in the context of dating and relationships, but also any relationship.
Today I’m breaking down all five love languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch.
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
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Feb 7, 2019
Feb 7, 2019
19 min
Have you ever felt like you have recurring themes in your relationships? Like you always seem to date men who keep themselves at a distance or are the jealous, clingy type?
Do you have a hard time getting close to men in relationships? Or do you, yourself, often find that you need a lot of reassurance that he loves you and wants to be with you?
These are signs of common attachment styles we have as adults, based on our experiences with our parents as children.
Had a parent who didn’t show up for you, wasn’t present, or had severe addictions? You may have developed an avoidant attachment style.
Had a parent who didn’t give you the attention you needed? You may have developed an anxious attachment style.
Grew up in a family where your needs were repeatedly met? You likely developed a secure attachment style.
Today I’m diving into ALL of these as well as how they play out in our relationships with men as adults.
Books I recommend in the episode:
Women Who Love too Much by Robin Norwood
Facing Love Addiction by Pia Mellody
Attached by Amir Levigne and Rachel Heller
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Feb 5, 2019
Feb 5, 2019
22 min
A common relationship question revolves around guys who are unavailable. Maybe you’ve dated some; guys who say they “don’t want a girlfriend” or aren’t “into titles?”
Sometimes it can just feel like since we like the guy so much, that if you wait around for him things will shift and that the relationship you wanted will be possible. But is this actually true?
These guys can be super fun and charming, but will they still be that way if and when they actually become your boyfriend?
In today’s episode I’m breaking down several problems that come with chasing an unavailable guy, and why we even seek out these relationships in the first place.
Then I’ll show you actionable steps you can take to help bring your awareness to the situation and help you move out of it.
Take my FREE quiz to find out your love type and your success formula to magnetize love this year! https://bit.ly/lovetypequiz
Let’s connect! Here’s where you can find me:
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Jan 31, 2019
Jan 31, 2019
28 min
I get so much inspiration from the amazing women posting about relationships in my private Facebook group, Magnetizing Love.
Today’s episode digs into this juicy question:
“I met this guy online. We’ve been texting for about a month and have gone on one date. Is it OK for me to turn him down when he asks me out? Especially when he’s only asking me to come over late at night. I’ve said no twice since we went out a week and a half ago. Once because I was working six 12 hour days in a row, and it was my one day off where I had to go get errands and grocery shopping done that literally took all day. The second was tonight, where he texted me and said I could come over ‘just to sleep.’ I don’t want him to think I’m not interested. I’ve truthfully explained why and that I regret having to say no. I also just don’t want to be summoned to your apartment at the last minute without a plan. Not when I’ve told you I’m exhausted, I’m buried at work, and I don’t want this just to be about sex. Am I doing this totally wrong? Am I overthinking this? Sigh. I just hate dating.”
I’m breaking ALL of that down for you today. We’re talking boundaries, expectations, priorities and even how to prioritize and make the most of that free time that you do have.
Take my FREE quiz to find out your love type and your success formula to magnetize love this year! https://bit.ly/lovetypequiz
Let’s connect! Here’s where you can find me:
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Jan 30, 2019
Jan 30, 2019
13 min
“Good men, they’re on the extinction list, or taken. Most want a nurse, or a purse, a booty call. Lots of evil liars, scammers, and users.” This is a comment on a social media post I read recently and it’s got me all fired up.
Have to ever felt this way? Or had a girlfriend who had this opinion of men?
We’re breaking this down today to talk about how this belief is not only straight up not true, but how having that limiting belief and negative energy is actually keeping you from finding the great men that are out there, literally everywhere.
You get to choose what serves you. Having negative, limiting beliefs like this do not serve you and will do nothing to move your life forward.
The law of attraction states that we get to attract what we are energetically matched to. We find what we look for.
In this episode, I’m digging into the differences between our conscious and subconscious beliefs about love, how they affect our relationships and what you can do to start changing your limiting beliefs about love.
Take my FREE quiz to find out your love type and your success formula to magnetize love this year! https://bit.ly/lovetypequiz
Let’s connect! Here’s where you can find me:
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Jan 30, 2019
Jan 30, 2019
17 min
How do you feel about dating? Do you enjoy it? Or do you hate it?
It is going to be very hard to call in “your person” if you are hating the process of getting to know new people, which is really what dating is.
Having this negative attitude about dating doesn’t serve you. I get it. I used to feel this way, too. But I decided to change my mindset about dating. I stopped believing that dating was a horrible chore, reframed my self talk, and started expecting and assuming that it was going to be fun and I was going to have a good time.
And you know what?
When I started focusing my energy on the fun side of dating, I started meeting guys that were willing to put a little more effort into creating a date where I had a great time and dating became fun.
Dating doesn’t have to be something you dread. It can be fun! Today I’m telling you all about how to make that happen for yourself.
Take my FREE quiz to find out your love type and your success formula to magnetize love this year! https://bit.ly/lovetypequiz
Let’s connect! Here’s where you can find me:
Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crystalirom
Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crystalirom
Join us in my Facebook group, Magnetizing Love: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2232160110344576/